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Private Asian dating for accomplished men

A more considered
way to meet.

Meaningful marriages deserve thoughtful introductions. A boutique matchmaking agency for successful men ready to build a family, and for Asian women who are marriage-minded and values-aligned.

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We limit the number of men we accept each year, so every client receives personal attention and complete discretion.

How it works

I

Private consultation

A confidential conversation about your life, values and long-term vision.

II

Acceptance

We review every application personally and accept a small number of men.

III

Curated introductions

We introduce you to women chosen for compatibility, not volume.

IV

Guided to commitment

We stay with you from the first meeting through to a lasting partnership.

Success stories

Real introductions, in the words of the matchmakers who made them. Choose a couple.

      About

      Linda and Lisa founded the Elite Asian Matchmaker with a simple belief: meaningful marriages deserve thoughtful introductions.

      With deep cultural understanding and international experience, they saw that many accomplished men wanted serious, traditional partnerships, yet felt underserved by modern dating apps. They built this boutique agency to serve Asian women and the men who genuinely value them.

      They work directly with each client, holding private consultations and curating introductions around compatibility, values and long-term vision. They are not facilitators of casual dating. Our service is built on trust, not transactions.

      If accepted, you will work directly with them throughout your journey.

      Linda Cai, co-founder
      Founder

      Linda Cai

      Lisa Xie, co-founder
      Founder

      Lisa Xie

      Locations

      Private introductions across five regions of the United States.

      Maryland

      Serving the Maryland region with discreet, personalized introductions.

      Bethesda · Rockville · Silver Spring · Chevy Chase · Potomac · GaithersburgLearn more

      Washington, DC

      The capital's most private matchmaking service for accomplished professionals.

      Georgetown · Capitol Hill · Dupont Circle · Logan Circle · Foggy Bottom · Navy YardLearn more

      Virginia

      Serving Northern Virginia's elite professional community with care and discretion.

      McLean · Arlington · Alexandria · Reston · Tysons · Falls ChurchLearn more

      Florida

      From Miami's cosmopolitan corridors to Boca Raton, Naples, and Tampa Bay.

      Miami · Boca Raton · Fort Lauderdale · Naples · Tampa · OrlandoLearn more

      California

      Serving Silicon Valley, Los Angeles, San Diego, and California's coastal communities.

      Los Angeles · Beverly Hills · San Francisco · Palo Alto · San DiegoLearn more

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      Every application is reviewed personally by Linda or Lisa and kept strictly confidential. Fields marked * are required.

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      What you are looking for

      Uploads are optional (images or PDF, up to 5 MB each). Your ID is used only to verify your identity and is never shared with potential matches.

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